Working at Home on Your Computer, Your Health, and How to Fight Depression Before it Happens

My rant today is about how to fight depression with preventive measures when you are a person that works at home and work too much.  Internet marketers who work at home are at risk of poor health if they have no boundaries between “work” life and “home” life.

I have always struggled with this.  I could be sitting and watching TV and say to myself, “This is boring.  There’s nothing on TV worth watching.  I’m going to go get my laptop.”  I get started writing an article.  I get fired up.  I end up staying up later than I should because I am not winding down.  I’m letting work intrude on an evening that is supposed to be “time off.”

“What’s wrong with that?” you ask.   Good question, especially since you can be really productive ( in the short term) when you work insane hours.  I suppose that when a psychologist uses the words “insane hours” it could have another meaning, but I just mean working too much.

The point in all of this is that if you have an internet business and work at home, you have to impose some strict routines on yourself for exercise, rest, eating, socializing (NOT on the web), running errands, and … (drum roll, please) going to the doctor at least once a year to have an annual physical exam.  Doing this is not only a good habit for good health, but it helps cope with one of the occupational hazards of the internet marketing crowd:  depression.  Getting regular “well” visits to your physician is how to fight depression before it becomes and issue.

Self-Care, How to Fight Depression, and Learning from History

In the 1980s I worked as a software engineer for a major computer company.  At that time, it was a common joke in the office to point out the super-hero programmers who worked ridiculous hours and always came in on Saturday.  Not that I knew first hand that they worked all day Saturday.  By had friends who told me these things.  These were the serious engineering techies that experienced a deep thrill when a new C++ compiler would be released for the Mac.  Today we might call them nerds.

One of the prevalent sayings at the time was, “Real Programmers Don’t Eat Quiche.”  Instead, the stereotypical image of a “real” programmer was an unshaven, brilliant, 20 or 30 something man with vending machine wrappers littered around his desk and computer terminal.  He rarely went out for lunch with everyone. No, he was important.  He had important tasks to finish.  World peace depended on it.  Besides. real programmer don’t go out to lunch and they don’t eat quiche.  Quiz question for you:  Do you think these real programmers went to their doctor once per year for annual physical?

So after all this long rambling I am finally getting to the point of this article:  Go to your doctor for a physical exam once per year whether you think you need it or not.  And when you are feeling burnt out, discouraged, or frustrated for more than a few weeks, then go see the doctor right away.  You could be experiencing the signs and symptoms of depression without thinking of it in that way.

Six Questions to Ask Your Doctor

The first thing to do is to schedule an appointment with the family doctor for a complete physical.  This is important because there are many possible physical conditions that can generate the signs and symptoms of depression.  A strenuous learning curve for how to fight depression may not be necessary if the signs and symptoms of depression that you are experiencing are caused by a hormone deficiency, for example.

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How Sad When the Computer is Down!

There are specific questions you need to ask your doctor.

QUESTION 1:  During the examination, say to the physician,  “I’m wondering if I have the symptoms of depression.  What do you think?”  This will ensure that part of the physician’s time will be spent having a simple discussion with you about what you are experiencing and discuss how to fight depression in a clear, straightforward manner.

It’s useful to understand a little about the purpose of lab work.  A standard part of an annual physical examination is to send a sample of your blood to the lab for various tests.   There are always scores of different tests that the doctor does NOT order the lab to do because of the added expense (for the insurance company or for you) and because many conditions represented by those added tests are relatively rare.

TIP: it’s best to ask the  question about depression near the beginning of the exam, especially before the doctor orders the routine lab tests. The reason for this is simple.  There are various conditions such a anemia or low thyroid that can produce depression symptoms.

Asking about depression near the beginning of the exam allows your doctor to order additional tests on the blood sample that is drawn from you. When you are thinking about how to fight depression, take one of the easier steps right away and ask for a photocopy of the actual numbers of your lab results.

Once it has been diagnosed, the challenge of how to fight depression becomes easier to map out.  This naturally leads to the next question to ask your doctor during your physical examination.  QUESTION 2:  Ask the doctor, “Do you know of a good psychologist or therapist that I could meet with for an evaluation?”   TIP:  although clinical depression is a medical condition, it can be caused by non medical factors that can easily escape the notice of someone lacking specialized training.

QUESTIONS 3:  Additionally, ask the doctor, “Can you explain which antidepressant medications seem to work the best for your patients?”  QUESTION 4:  “If medication is what your patients choose for how to fight depression, what have you found are the pros and cons of the main antidepressants?”  TIP:  ask this followup question, mentioning specific medications by name.  For example, “Can you explain to me the benefits and side-effects of Zoloft, Lexapro, and Cymbalta?

Mentioning the medications by name is important if you are in an HMO insurance plan because doctors are sometimes restricted from telling you about the more expensive medications unless you specifically ask. Also, keep in mind that when someone starts a course of treatment with medication, it will take some time (at least a few weeks) to start feeling the positive effects of the medication.

QUESTION 5:  Also ask, “Are you comfortable prescribing these medications?”  This is important because not all general practitioners have as much training as they would like in order to monitor medication for depression.

TIP:  Before you actually meet with your physician for the exam, make a short list of these questions and others.  Depression makes concentration and memory temporarily less reliable and more frustrating.  A simple list will ensure that you ask all the questions you had been thinking about beforehand.

A final question can be asked just before you leave.  QUESTION 6:  “Is there anything else you can tell me about how to fight depression?”  If you ask these six questions you will have made a good start in learning how to fight depression and as well as acting on what you have learned.  Also, additional tips on how to fight depression can be found at a more specialized website.

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Discouragement in an occupational hazard of any business endeavor, but starting and operating an internet business from home has a particular risk for becoming demoralized.  This risk can extend even to the point of causing your better half to comment on the signs and symptoms of depression that you are showing.  What are the characteristics of internet marketing or working from home that are conducive to the sprouting of the full array of signs and symptoms of  depression?  There are actually more than a few ways that working at home raises the risk for depression  for most people, but there are at least 3 major factors that deserve attention because they allow the signs and symptoms of depression or discouragement to grow like weeds:

  1. You don’t get out much, do you?“  The first aspect of  a work-at-home internet business that naturally leads to depression is the social isolation.  We are social creatures and simply function better and are happier if we have more time staring at two human eyes than we do staring at the big eye of our computer monitor.
  2. Work hard, feel like a failure. The second aspect has to do with the difficulty of measuring progress.  Yes, I know that you can watch the numbers:  traffic statistics, the money in your paypal account, or number of sales.  But in the earlier stages of your amazing career as an internet entrepreneur,  there may not be a lot of numbers to look at.  This means that on numerous occasions you work hard all day long, but have no way of knowing if you really accomplished anything.  Sure, you set up another blog today, but we all know that the old adage, “If you build it they will come,” just ain’t so.
  3. I love working at home and being my own boss. Now I can work 24-7!“  The third aspect of a work-at-home internet business that nudges you toward depression is something shared with other enterprises in which a sole proprietor is self-employed.   When is the work ever done?  Now I am a psychologist and I see patients at my office a few miles from my home.  I am self-employed, but at least I can leave the physical location of my office and say to myself, “Greg, the day is over.  Give it a rest…”  But my internet business is something I do from home.  Consider this:  it’s 8:30pm on a Tuesday evening.  My wife is watching TV and I’m, well, uh…, well, uh….sitting here writing an article!  See what I mean? The line between work and home life can easily become blurred.

So, what can be done about this?  Well, I plan to write more about that very question.  In the meantime, the first step is to learn some basic facts about depression so that you can recognize the signs and symptoms of depression in yourself.

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